The best first date is relaxed, public and gives you plenty to talk about. Here are ideas that work in three of the continent's busiest cities — and most of them work wherever you are.

Lagos
- A walk at Lekki Conservation Centre — nature, the famous canopy walkway, and lots to talk about.
- An art gallery or exhibition on the Island, followed by small chops nearby.
- A beach afternoon with suya and cold drinks — go in a group if you prefer.
Accra
- Sunset at Labadi or Kokrobite beach, with music in the background.
- Explore Jamestown and the lighthouse area, then try local food together.
- A café crawl in Osu — rate the coffee, find your favourite spot.
Nairobi
- A morning at the Karura Forest trails — walk or cycle, then brunch.
- Visit a craft market and pick a small gift for each other.
- A rooftop dinner with city views for a special occasion.
Anywhere
Coffee, a short walk or a JoDate meetup are always good choices. Whatever you pick, meet in public, tell a friend your plans and arrange your own transport.
Choose a place where you can talk and laugh easily — that's what makes a first date work.