The best first date is relaxed, public and gives you plenty to talk about. Here are ideas that work in three of the continent's busiest cities — and most of them work wherever you are.

Quick tips: Choose a busy public place, Keep it short and sweet, Plan your own ride home

Lagos

  • A walk at Lekki Conservation Centre — nature, the famous canopy walkway, and lots to talk about.
  • An art gallery or exhibition on the Island, followed by small chops nearby.
  • A beach afternoon with suya and cold drinks — go in a group if you prefer.

Accra

  • Sunset at Labadi or Kokrobite beach, with music in the background.
  • Explore Jamestown and the lighthouse area, then try local food together.
  • A café crawl in Osu — rate the coffee, find your favourite spot.

Nairobi

  • A morning at the Karura Forest trails — walk or cycle, then brunch.
  • Visit a craft market and pick a small gift for each other.
  • A rooftop dinner with city views for a special occasion.

Anywhere

Coffee, a short walk or a JoDate meetup are always good choices. Whatever you pick, meet in public, tell a friend your plans and arrange your own transport.

Choose a place where you can talk and laugh easily — that's what makes a first date work.